Thanks man, after fiddling around i think part of the issue might be my knee pads. I wear bauer vapor 1x knee pads, and while I really like them they're a little bulky and seem to want to land in that spot. I've tried really loosening up the knee but it doesn't seem to do much and I end up having trouble in my butterfly because the pads don't have to track with the knee to close the 5-hole. Even with them strapped up tighter, though, I definitely don't get as nice a 5-hole closure as you do, but that's probably more of a mobility issue (I have plenty of flexibility and have no problem being put into a nice flaired position, but am still working on getting my hips to do it by themselves).
Anyway, really appreciate the response!